I hope you felt like a breath of air was lifted from you. I’m sure when the time is right, you’ll meet an amazing person and not even have to think about it. :)
of course! (: thank you!
i went to camp last week and there was this guy i had a ‘thing’ with. we held hands and kissed and everything. but he lives three hours away and we both really like each other but we decided to take things slow and just be friends for now and if it happens, it happens. i’m not sure if i want to be just friends. i don’t know what to do :/
-Anonymous
Well, if you honestly legit like him, I say follow you heart and your instincts, and don’t be afraid to let your friendship become more. Even if he lives three hours away, if you guys really cared for each other, I’m sure a distance like that shouldn’t be as tough as say, halfway across the world. Let your friendship grow, and maybe it’ll become something you didn’t even half expect.
when life gets you down, when you don’t see any light anymore, when
everything just goes totally wrong in all ways possible, when you don’t see how things will get better..
when you’ve cried your eyes out, given up all hope, feel so low and depressed like never before.
know that there is someone somewhere around the world praying for you, there is someone who cares for you, someone who will support you, someone who will be there for you through it all, someone who holds you dear to their heart, someone who wants the best for you, someone who loves you,someone who will bring you up.
don’t give up hope, don’t give up, don’t throw in the towel. stay strong. things will be better, things will turn around. just hold on and hang in there.
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I don’t mean to tell you all his flaws, but I just don’t want to see a good friend getting hurt again.
I’m not sure if you just want me to post this so you can get it off your chest, or if you want some advice. But I think I’ll give it my best shot anyway.
It seems as though you’re confused about your feelings, because now you’ve got two guys on your mind. Your ex and you most likely shared a lot of great memories together, but then comes this other guy who everyone can see you with. What happens is you’re basically picturing yourself with him which is causing you to think twice about how you really feel towards him. But you’re also afraid to let go of your ex, since it seems to me as if you guys are still good friends. It’s honestly your choice in the end, but I say allow yourself to get to know this new guy better and don’t worry so much about what your ex may think. Consult your ex if you think there might be any misunderstandings that come along. What matters most right now is your happiness, because you deserve it. If you do end up with true feelings for this guy, I say go for it because he’s a whole different person.
Ever since Tumblr came into my life, I’ve found myself more able to cope with problems. I can finally manage my anger, pain, and emotional outbreaks in a way I never used to think I could. Just by giving myself little pep talks here and there, and knowing that I’m not alone in this world gives me hope.
It’s been a whole year since we went from best friends, to lovers, to enemies, to strangers, and now to ‘pass-by-the-hallway-and-say-hi’ buddies. You were my first love, and I guess it’s true when they say your first is always the hardest to forget. And possibly forgive. But I’m not allowing myself anymore regrets about this. I need to be happy, and that’s that. I’ll see you around, bud.
